
Just a thought.
I would like you to consider the fact that you are an entire asshat.
The privilege present in this little gem is just fucking nauseating.
Some people can’t fucking risk their necks by ‘coming out’.
Some people have more at stake than getting kicked out, like oh, I dunno, abuse and bodily integrity.
This is the kind of mental-illness shaming bullshit that hurts people who experience emotional or personality disorders by telling them that their experiences are not valid enough. That they can just pep-talk away the hurt and the danger and the shitty situations they live in.
Well, sorry BRO, that not everyone can pull themselves up by their damn BOOTSTRAPS.
Just because you think it’s worth it to come out against those who dislike your faith or identity, does not mean that it’s safe or even fucking viable for anyone fucking else. Having shit like this floating around the pagan community is so fucking hurtful to everyone who experiences these types of issues.
To anyone else reading this:
Your feelings are valid. You are not lazy, weak, or any other fucking less-than adjective. Your motivations and identities are your own. Don’t let idiots like this tell you that you are less-than just because you don’t feel safe risking your neck to proclaim your identities from the mountaintops. Mental illness IS an illness. Not everyone copes the same, obviously, because not everyone’s identities and experiences are the fucking same, just because they are described with the same fucking words.
OP, please remove your head from your ass before you post more prescriptive, harmful, mental-health shaming bullshit.
I’m gonna stay in the sexuality closet and broom closet and not get murdered thanks. Check yo privilege OP. You’re lucky that where you live isn’t where I live, because where I live it is NOT safe to be pagan or queer; to put it in the words of my homophobic friends, “People have been shot for less (than being gay)”. Just the other day an obeah woman was put in jail for “putting a hex on a child” and her family was attacked. Fuck off.
All the comments.
If it ever came down to dying for my faith or lying to stay alive, you better believe I’m going to lie my ass off. I love Lu, but quite frankly, I’m of better use to him alive than dead.